Bedwetting Beyond Age 5 — Understanding What It Means and How Your GP Can Help

Why bedwetting happens

Bedwetting (nocturnal enuresis) beyond age 5 is common and often part of normal development rather than a sign of misbehaviour or poor parenting. Many children simply take longer to develop night-time bladder control. Factors may include a smaller bladder capacity, deeper sleep patterns, constipation, fluid management challenges, or a family history of bedwetting.

It is rarely your child’s fault

Children do not choose to wet the bed. Blame, punishment, or shame can make children feel anxious and discouraged, which may worsen the problem. Supportive reassurance helps children feel safe, confident, and involved in solutions at their own pace.

When to consider seeing your GP

Speak with your GP if bedwetting continues regularly beyond age 5, if it begins suddenly after a dry period, or if your child has pain, fever, persistent daytime accidents, unusual thirst, or concerns about constipation. Medical review helps rule out infection, underlying health causes, or emotional stress.

Practical support strategies

Helpful approaches often include reassurance, regular toilet use before bedtime, healthy daytime hydration, managing constipation, practical waterproof bedding, and calm, predictable routines. Bedwetting alarms or other strategies may be recommended for some children. Treatment is always tailored to the child’s needs, comfort, age, and family situation.

Supporting emotional wellbeing

Bedwetting can affect confidence, self-esteem, sleep, and social experiences such as sleepovers or camp. Emotional support matters as much as practical care. Gentle encouragement, normalising reassurance, and open conversation help children feel understood rather than embarrassed.

Working with your GP and health team

Your GP can help assess medical causes, explain treatment options, provide guidance, and support your family over time. If specialist care is needed, your GP will arrange it. Progress is often gradual — and improvement is very achievable.

Bedwetting beyond age 5 is manageable, common, and treatable with understanding and the right plan.

This article provides general health information only and does not replace medical advice. Please speak with your GP for personalised care.